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Creole Creamery: My New Orleans

Creole Creamery: My New Orleans

Want to eat some amazing ice cream next time you’re in New Orleans? (Is that a stupid question or what?) We are embarrassed — nay, regretful — that it’s taken us this long to actually go visit Creole Creamery. Michael’s cousins have been raving on […]

St James Cheese Company: My New Orleans

St James Cheese Company: My New Orleans

I am slowly starting to work my way down my list of places to eat in New Orleans; St James Cheese Company has been on that list for a while! It is devoted to, well, all things cheese, but also excels at turning that cheese […]

Driving in France: Overview and Tips

Driving in France: Overview and Tips

A year-and-a-half ago, my husband and I took a two week road trip in France. (Spoiler alert: we LOVED it!! Breakdown of our itinerary coming in a future post. . .) But I have to admit, I was initially a little nervous about driving in France. Ok, a lotta nervous. Mostly about accidentally breaking the law and having to deal with a ticket being mailed to me, or, even worse, an actual police offer. I did lots of research and listened to several podcasts, and felt pretty prepared before we left, but I thought I’d jot down some thoughts and tips I found particularly helpful on our road trip. (I will cover the rental car process in another post. This is just rules of the road.) Join Us In France has numerous podcasts and an entire page dedicated to the subject — it is an absolutely invaluable resource!

Easy to Drive

First off, driving in France was much more intuitive than I had anticipated, and something I would do again in a heartbeat! My normally intrepid husband initially refused to even entertain the idea of him doing any of the driving (because he understands no French at all. I speak some.), but after a couple days there he said that he would have felt comfortable driving, too. If you don’t read any French, don’t worry; the roads in France are quite navigable, especially once you know what the signs mean. (And also once you figure out which signs are important. The French seem to love them some road signs, often to a fault. I mean, I really don’t think you need to be told not to make a left turn as you’re merging onto an autoroute. . . Do you??!) So don’t let the multitude of advice here and elsewhere scare you off. It was much easier than I anticipated.


Should You Drive?

Do you need to have a car to get around much of France? Definitely not! France has an excellent train system that goes quickly and easily between all major cities. In fact, if you’re mostly visiting cities, you don’t want the hassle of a car at all, and should rely on public transport. (For the love of all that is sane, don’t drive in Paris!!) As much fun as it was to take a road trip, a car is only necessary to get to more out-of-the-way-places, usually rural sites.

Traffic Signals

The one thing about traffic lights in France that occasionally threw me off a little as I drove, was that it was not uncommon for them to be off on the side of the road (instead of hanging above the road). Sometimes they were hanging up, but keep an eye out for signals on what is essentially the sidewalk! Other than that, traffic lights in France are pretty much the same as in the US, and self-explanatory (if you’d like a more thorough treatment of the subject, Americans in France does that in their post on traffic lights.) To the best of my knowledge, turning right on red is NOT allowed. If any sort of turn is allowed it will be marked with either a green arrow (you have right of way turning right), or a yellow/amber arrow (you may turn, but you don’t have right of way–yield to pedestrians/bikes/other traffic).


In my opinion, most of the road signs are self-explanatory. However, several of the signs you see frequently aren’t intuitive, so do research common French Yield to the Right when driving in Franceroad signs before you go. (Again, start with Join Us in France, but their page isn’t comprehensive. See Wikipedia’s page for a comprehensive list. I recommend saving the Wikipedia page as a screenshot to your navigator’s phone to reference quickly. More on your navigator in a minute. . .) To me, there were just a few non-intuitive signs when driving that I had to watch out for. The first is that sometimes you must yield to vehicles merging from the right.  This is a yield sign with CÉDEZ LE PASSAGE (literally, “yield passage”) written beneath. This yield-to-the-right situation came up much less frequently than I was concerned it would, but it’s definitely a good one to know.No Parking Sign for driving in FranceNo cars sign for driving in France

A blue circle with a red border and line through it means “no parking”. A circle bordered in red mean “no cars”. (I seem to recall my poor husband having to frantically look up both of those.)

The last very important thing to watch for are village signs –the name of the village/town in on a rectangular sign. The speed limit immediately, automatically drops to usually 50 KPH and will not be marked — the village sign is your only cue to slow down!! Then when you exit the village/town, you’ll see the same rectangular sign, this time with a strike through the name.

Image courtesy of Adam & Molly Go; check our their page for more helpful tips.


This means the speed limit has returned to its previous, higher limit. Again, usually no speed limit sign, you just have to know. (I found my sign image on this blog, which has other helpful tips too!)My GPS did warn me of these drops in speed with frantic dings, which was helpful, but you should still be aware of it. Because. . .

There is No Leeway on Speed Limits

What speed limit is posted (or not posted!) is exactly what you should be doing; there’s no five-over-is-close-enough fudging, and you can’t slow down after you reach the speed limit/village sign either. When you reach the sign you should be going whatever speed is posted/expected! And don’t think because you don’t see an official of the law that you’re safe; there are all sorts of speed cameras around, and your rental company will indeed forward any tickets that get sent to them. (Thankfully, I don’t speak from personal experience. But it made me paranoid.) Speed limit signs are much scarcer in France than they are in the US; there are standard speed limits for different types of roads. The speed limits are listed and described at this helpful page.


Bring a GPS or have a phone with lots of data to use. (I considered just using paper maps, but that would have been a terrible idea! Yes, I was nuts.) We personally found that sometimes our GPS directed us to a particular site a different way than was marked by the official signs to the site (e.g., a sign pointing the way to Chenonceau), and we found that the official road signs got us there faster and more directly. Judicious ignoring of the GPS may sometimes be in order. Signs and GPS notwithstanding, still be prepared to get a little lost sometimes; this is where an “enjoy the journey” mentality keeps it fun. 😉 But definitely have some sort of electronic navigation. However . . . (!!!)

Absolutely no cell phone use is allowed behind the wheel. None.

Fairly recently France moved from no-use-of cell-phones-while driving to no use in the car whatsoever. In addition, you are expected to drive safely and in control of your car at all times, and officers of the law have leeway to give you a ticket if you’re driving distracted for any reason. If you need to fix your GPS, park your car. If you need to look up a random street sign, park the car. Pulling over to the side of the road doesn’t count. In light of this, I highly suggest you having a second adult in the front seat to be your navigator/reference driver! Sometimes you need some help driving in a strange place (or deciphering a strange sign) and there won’t always be a convenient place to park.

Roundabouts are commonly encountered, much more often than in most of the US. Personally, I love them. If it’s a two-lane roundabout, the inner lane is just for going around (and around if needed), and the outer lane is for merging and exiting. Don’t try to exit from the inner lane! The French enter and leave them fearlessly, so drive alertly, and equally fearlessly. Rick Steves covers them briefly here, and you can find an even better explanation (with a diagram!) over here.

Picnic at a rest area in France

Toll Roads

If you’re driving in France for any sort of a long distance, you will likely encounter a toll road, (péage). This is because the long stretches of freeway are actually privately maintained, and the tolls fund that maintenance. Bring cash to pay for it (remember: cash is king in France!). I think we did pay for some tolls with our credit card occasionally, but have cash to be safe. . . Look for lanes that have money on the signs to see where you can pay with cash (rather than use a tag). I don’t recall the tolls plazas being tricky to navigate; they seemed like the ones in the US.

Once you’re on a toll road, you often can’t get off for many long stretches of time. But fear not! There are places to stop where you can get gas and food and stretch your legs. There were usually places to picnic too (and many picnickers); think of the stops as more like rest areas than gas stations. The French take even their road trips more on the leisurely side. . . after reading an amusing overview of autoroute stores here, I recommend what we did on our road trip — grab a sandwich for lunch when you get your morning pastries!

Parking & Gas

Parking in France is much like it is in any US city; just check the parking signs at the sites I linked above to be sure you’re not parking in a forbidden zone. If it’s paid parking, I found it to be well-marked. Parking spots do tend to be cozy. The nice thing about exploring smaller cities is there is usually lots of free parking. Michael wants me to mention that parallel parking is frequently required (can you tell who hates parallel parking?).

Of course, if you’re driving around, you will need fuel for your car. Overall, gas stations are much like they are in the States. It is not uncommon for even smaller cars to use diesel, which in French is gazole. You will get you best price for gas at supermarkets (supermarchés) like Cora and Carrefour, which have the added advantage of more extended hours. If you’re out in the country, gas stations will close down for the weekend and holidays (you can still find automated ones to use, but they’re not always obvious!). So if you pass a supermarché stop and fill up, and start your weekend with a fueled car. For a little more explanation read these articles here and here.

International Driving Permit

Lastly, it is recommended that you have an International Driving Permit if driving in France (or any foreign country). An IDP is essentially a translation of your valid drivers license. I say it’s “recommended” because I don’t think the car rental company even asked for it! (More on renting a car in another post.) To obtain an IDP, fill out this form and bring it to your local AAA office with $20 and two passport photos. It will be valid for a year. You still need to carry your US drivers license with you in France. Car seat laws are basically the same as in the US.


Whew! Despite all the many things I’ve talked about, like I said, don’t let driving in France scare you — it’s not as hard as it may sound!And so very worth it to explore parts of France that you can only reach by car.

To end on a slightly humorous note, in the event that you do for some reason get pulled over, I was advised that if you do know any French, don’t let the gendarme know that, ha! Be polite, but respond in English. Unless you’re in a big city, chances are that the gendarme won’t speak English and won’t feel like fooling with you. . .apparently the dumb tourist card works sometimes. (But please obey all posted laws. And please eat a croissant for me if you go to France.)



Handling Money in France: How-to and Tips

Handling Money in France: How-to and Tips

Ah, money. We gotta have it while traveling, but it can be stressful to figure out the best way to handle it while in a foreign country (like, say, France. Did someone say France? Mais oui! Did someone say money? Here’s how I budget for […]

Tulip Time in Holland, Michigan

Tulip Time in Holland, Michigan

Last weekend, we day-tripped over to Holland, Michigan, for the 90th anniversary of the Tulip Time Festival. Holland is about three hours west of Detroit and the festival this year is from May 4-12. (Good news if you’re wanting it check it out next weekend […]

Outdoor Adventure Center, Detroit

Outdoor Adventure Center, Detroit

Ever stumble upon a gem of a place and wonder “Where has this been? This place is awesome!” That’s how the kids and I felt about the Outdoor Adventure Center when we first checked it out last month. (And also how we felt at the chocolate factory! ;-)) Run by the Michigan Department of Natural Resources, the idea behind the center is to bring the Michigan outdoors into Detroit. Masterfully incorporating technology into many of the exhibits, the OAC gave our city kids a great taste of the “Up North” experience. Plus, it’s actually all indoors, which makes it a great rainy day activity. Follow along with us through the pictures below!

Hunting Outdoor Adventure Center Detroit Shooting Range

One of the kids’ favorite exhibits was the hunting section. With a duck blind, a tower blind, a tree stand, animal pelts, and a shooting gallery, my boys could have spent all day here! In this section, as well as throughout the center, there is more information provided than we’ve gotten through on our visits. There’s such much to learn here!


Outdoor Adventure Center Detroit Kayaking

Outdoor Adventure Center Detroit Fishing

The Rivers & Lakes exhibit has a kayaking simulator and a fishing experience – with the fishing pole pulling while you’re trying to reel in the big one on the screen! My boys were definitely pretending to drive the boat too and adding in their own sound effects. 😉


Outdoor Adventure Center Detroit Tree ForestTree

Climb a giant bur oak tree to the second level of the OAC in the Forestry section. Kids can also explore the tree roots or go down the slide, and don’t miss the bear’s den nearby!


Tahquamenon Falls Simulator Outdoor Adventure Center Detroit

Flap your wings and fly like an eagle over Tahquamenon Falls though this cool simulator. It’s on the top level of the OAC in the Treehouse display, a whole section about eagles.



Another favorite exhibit is the Outdoor Trail section with snowmobile and ATV simulators. On the mountain bike simulators, kids can race each other!


Kitchen/Conservation Station

Teach your kids about energy conservation in the Nature in Your Neighborhood display! With information on everything from energy efficient windows to composting, there’s a lot to learn here! Or your kids can just pretend to wash the dishes, like mine is here. 😉


Outdoor Adventure Center Airplane

There’s an airplane for the kids to climb aboard! Hopefully your crew won’t be loudly simulating bombing raids and pretending to parachute out like mine were.


I haven’t even mentioned the waterfall, full-sized yurt, or rope bridge! Archery classes are available, most with pre-registration. Can you tell we loved it here? My kids are already begging to go back to the Outdoor Adventure Center!  


Know before you go: 

Admission is quite reasonable at $3/child (over 2) and $5/adult. An annual membership is $50, and the last Thursday of each month is free from 6-8 pm. The center is closed Mondays and Tuesdays. You can check current hours here!

Free parking is located next to the building in a secured lot. Lunch facilities are available inside their cafeteria. There are also vending machines for snacks and drinks and lockers to store your lunch in while you’re enjoying the museum.

Outdoor Adventure Center lunch room Outdoor Adventure Center lockers

The facility is handicap friendly, so baby-wearing isn’t a necessity. It may give you a little more flexibility to chase after kids  and climb up the burr oak with them though. 🙂 For nursing moms, there is a nursing mother’s room.


Attractions nearby:

The OAC is only a five minute drive from the center of downtown! It’s located along the Detroit Riverfront and across the street is the 31-acre William G. Milliken State Park with picnic facilities, weekly nature programs, paved trails, a harbor, and lighthouse.

Outside the entrance to the OAC is the trailhead for the Dequindre Cut, a two-mile pedestrian/cyclist greenway built over a former railroad line.

The Dequindre Cut leads to Eastern Market, a public market with food, drinks, and Michigan-made products.

Interested in bike rentals? Wheelhouse Detroit‘s riverfront location is .3 miles away (1340 E. Atwater St., Detroit, MI 48207) with rentals available for adults and kids!

Why My Children are Taking French Lessons

Why My Children are Taking French Lessons

So, we’ve started French lessons for our two oldest children this year! And I’m so glad we did. That sentence sounds ridiculously pretentious to me, so allow me to back up and give you the background, before I tell you why we started French lessons […]

Friday Miscellany – links and loves from around the web

Friday Miscellany – links and loves from around the web

Let’s start off with these cookies, shall we? The recipe comes from a cookbook of Melissa’s and was the answer to the what-should-I-bring-to-this-gathering dilemma for both of us, the same week. Any scrumptious dessert that’s freezable, a crowd pleaser, and requires no grocery trip for […]

New Orleans’ Audubon Zoo/Two-Fer

New Orleans’ Audubon Zoo/Two-Fer

As I mentioned earlier, we’ve had the most amazing spring weather this year. It’s been unusually glorious, and I’ve not taken it for granted. We took advantage of yesterday’s perfect weather to do a full day at the Audubon Zoo. I was especially motivated to go since our membership is expiring soon and I won’t renew it until next year. (This is no reflection on how much we love the Audubon Zoo! I just usually alternate memberships between it and our Children’s Museum, so as to maximize our membership value. Expect a post on the Children’s Museum soon…) The Audubon Zoo is one of our favorite spots to visit around New Orleans; it’s lush and lovely, and the exhibits have really been expanding and upgrading lately. We’ve visited it many times and never tire of it.

There is obviously plenty of wildlife to see– elephants, lions (new!), bats, reptiles, large cats, rhinos, etc. There’s an African section, an Asian one, a Mayan jungle one, and a primate section. It is probably unique in its swamp exhibit, which showcases all things swamp and deep Louisiana (many gators!). You’ll definitely feel the swamp vibe walking through it. The kids (and this mama!) appreciate the number of hands-on sort of play scattered throughout; there are a couple of different playgrounds, a petting zoo, a carousel, an archeological “dig”, and Monkey Hill.

Monkey Hill is a unique little section of the zoo that locals know to bring your bathing suit for. In addition to being something of a New Orleans institution that generations of New Orwillians have enjoyed (unless you want to be mocked, please please don’t actually use that term, but please do watch this and laugh). There is some debate as to whether or not it’s the highest point in the area. There is no debate on how much fun it is to roll down. Yes, it’s really that flat down here.

Monkey Hill Audubon Zoo

Besides the hill and water, there’s a little suspension bridge that leads to a slide. Be prepared to park for a while (benches provided!) and let the kids roam up, down, and around the hill.

In my opinion the Audubon Zoo is just pretty to walk around, never mind the animals; in addition to lovely landscaping, it has several old structures and fountains that give it a lot of character. I hope you get to visit it and love it, too.

If all this talk of this much activity is making you tired, French Truck Coffee has a location on Dryades St. not too far from the Audubon Zoo…just saying…I personally suggest swinging by on your way in. It’s delicious.

French Truck Coffee

Tips: Audubon Zoo is most crowded in the morning, so if you can time an afternoon visit do so. Wear sunblock! Even on cool days the sun can get you. Parking is free and plentiful.

Food: There are numerous cafes and food vendors around the zoo (you can peruse them here), but picnic lunches are very welcomed. You can tote any sort of cooler/picnic basket in, and there are numerous benches and tables available throughout the zoo, not to mention lawns shaded by oaks! We always pack a lunch, and sometimes we’ll get Roman Candy as a treat for dessert (family tradition…my husband grew up eating it every trip to the zoo!). The stand only accept cash, so bring a few dollars to indulge.

Audubon zoo swamp
Our lunch view this visit

Strollers: The entire zoo is very accessible via stroller. If you forgot yours, there are strollers available for rental near the front ($11 single/$13 double).

Ticket info: It goes without saying that if you’re visiting more than once, membership is best option. If you’re not local and membership doesn’t make sense, there’s a combo ticket you can read about here that looks to be a good value! I personally would do the Aquarium/Zoo combo, and not bother with the Insectarium. The Insectarium was interesting enough, but on the small side. I think the Zoo and Aquarium are much better! Especially if you’re just in town for a while. Buy tickets online ahead of time to save both time and a little money. Present the tickets on your phone.

Reading Round-up: April 2019

Reading Round-up: April 2019

With Melissa having shared her March Reading Round-up, I’m taking the baton for this round-up with my favorite books I’ve reads from March and April (so far!)   Written by Mike Rowe‘s mother, this book is a hilarious collection of stories about Peggy’s relationship with […]