As I mentioned in my post about travel budgeting, I consider us to be “fat budget” travelers — we keep a close eye on our costs, but spend money where it counts. I think food is an area where you can strategically cut significant costs, […]
Month: February 2019
Houston, we have a problem…All this imaginary trip planning has done nothing to ease my wanderlust. Nada. In fact, I think it’s made my husband catch the bug, and this may turn into a real trip yet. Ha! (Whenever we do go, I’ll walk you through the planning in real time.) We’ve been saving our money to meet our budget, and have been researching places we want to go. Now it’s time to book our rooms in Europe. If we were actually going somewhere, I would have tickets in hand before the next step of my planning: plotting how many days we’ll be where, and then booking rooms accordingly. (Don’t you want to know this before you go, you may ask. Well, yes, we have a rough idea of what we’ll be doing, but I wait until I have firm dates to get to the nitty-gritty.)
On to the lists! I am an inveterate list-making, and yes, my lists have lists. Before I book rooms, I write out our must-sees for each stop/city, and research how long it will take to see it all. (Not to be a broken record, but I’ve already mentioned how awesome Rick Steves’ books are for this– I always plan with his book in hand.) I try to leave some slush time in there for “bits and bobs” of travel, and I also have a list of “nice-to-sees” in case we have extra time– stuff that would be, well, nice to see, but I won’t feel robbed if we don’t get to it this trip. Don’t try to plan your time too tightly; something always takes longer than expected, or you’re especially tired/sick one day, or something goes awry. Expect it to happen, and plan accordingly.
The larger your group and the more children you have, the fewer activities I would recommend planning, and the fewer “must-see” sights I would schedule. Embrace slow adventure. Savor exploring one city thoroughly. Become acquainted with their parks and nearby cafés. Travel is sometimes about immersing yourself in an atmosphere, right? This is an art I am still learning, but one that will stand our trip enjoyment in good stead…Even if you are few in number and nimble to travel, plan a slower day after a really full one. Don’t wear yourself out. One thing I’ve learned is that I enjoy having my museums spaced out — if I see too many museums too close together I stop appreciating them. I need a day of nature/fun/wandering in between to refresh my mental palate. Preferably while using my actual palate…
Where to stay? Before I book any rooms in Europe my paranoia kicks in and I write a little chart of where we’ll be when, to make sure I don’t mess up my booking dates and that everything dovetails. We are fans of renting local houses; we feel a little more a part of wherever we’re visiting, we have a kitchen to help cut food costs (up next!), as well sitting areas to chill, and a way to wash clothes. Since we don’t travel with anything larger than a carry-on (For so many reasons! Never regretted it! Packing tips coming soon…), any trip that lasts longer than a week will require some way to do laundry. Unless we’re there the better part of a week, the first place we stay won’t need to have a washing machine, but our second one will. Within the next week, we’ll need another washing machine, so we book accordingly. So at least one chance to wash clothes a week. There’s nothing like having a way to wash clothes, particularly when traveling with children. Our personal rental go-to has been AirBnb (we are strangers to them, except as consumers), and we will filter rooms/houses by whether or not they have a washing machine. (You can also filter searches for baby gear, such as a pack n’ play. In France it’s called a lit paralpluie.) Heads up, most/many rooms in Europe will not have a dryer; they provide a drying rack, just plan accordingly in your clothes schedule! I’ve never had a bad experience renting a room in Europe; I read the reviews of a place thoroughly and they have steered me well. If you’re planning on using public transportation as your primary means of getting around, look to see if the room is close to a métro/bus stop. If I’m in France, it’s an especially nice perk if there’s a good boulangerie nearby (yes, I look for that too!).
Another personal rule of thumb: the more people you have in your group, the more children with you, the easier and faster commuting should be. Logistics are already complicated enough in those circumstances. Don’t make yourself wrangle a two-year old and/or eight other people out the door on a timetable every day to race to catch a bus or train, or even for a long walk. Not a fun way to start the day. We try to strike the balance of staying close enough in to enjoy the vibe, but not pay a premium. But sometimes it’s worth the premium for the experience and convenience! We did pay some premiums (to us) on our last trip to France for some B&Bs with native hosts (like our awesome place in Amboise!) and delicious breakfasts and they were worth every penny.
Bottom line: make a list of what things you must see, and plot your days in each location accordingly. When booking rooms in Europe, plan for downtime too, and to do laundry once a week. Don’t book rooms too far away in an effort to save money.
Things to see and places to sleep are wonderful, but I travel mostly on my stomach, so next week — planning food!
Welcome back to planning my would-be trip! Last time we talked turkey about budget figures. Today we talk about the next step of the planning process: how to decide where you’re going and how to get there. If you’re planning a Europe trip (which thus […]
Sometimes it’s little things that bring Europe into your home. Sometimes it’s the not-so-little things. This one is probably the latter.
One thing about Europe – in particular Italy – that we’ve especially enjoyed has been the coffee culture. It’s easy to get reasonably-priced, high-quality coffee pretty much anywhere, with an espresso going for about a €1 and a cappuccino for €1.50-2. I’m not saying I’ve developed an eye twitch on more than one trip there, but I’m not saying I haven’t. Anyway, you get your coffee, then you either stand at a bar and drink it (very Italian), or sit at a table in the cafe and people-watch and hang out while you nurse your coffee (not so Italian, but I like it anyway).
We’ve been enjoying our coffee as espresso-based drinks at home for some time now (more on the coffee culture both in our house and abroad in another post) and have the coffee side of the equation down pat.
However, we’ve wanted to complete our at home cafe experience for a while now and had been looking for a table that fit the bill for over a year. But alas everything was too big, too small, too expensive… you get the picture. So we decided to build one.
One thing we really wanted was a marble top. However, the thing with marble is that it’s a calcite stone, which in a practical sense means it reacts with everything even slightly acidic – tomatoes, wine, citrus juices, you name it – and will etch, leaving a permanent mark. We decided to go for it anyway, but got the stone in a matte finish rather than polished because it blends and fades the etches more easily.
So I found a local marble place and ordered the stone top. We went with a bigger table than you usually find at a cafe because we wanted to be able to seat four for coffee at it. After ordering a base online, I bought a piece of plywood to support the top and cut it to a round-ish shape.
Once the base arrived, I set about assembling the whole thing.
With a little help from my boys it was done and where it needed to be in no time!
Then with help from Michelle we got the stone top in place.
The space still isn’t quite done – the chairs are enroute from Louisiana (don’t ask, long story). Once they arrive this weekend, we’ll post an update with the final result!